Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Diversity in the United States


Color
Where is your color
Am I your friend
Your friend of color
Do I satisfy a need
Why must I be your person
Will you always run to me
Count them on your hand
One, two , three
How many white
How many like you
Where is your diversity
Color stays within
Color is discriminated
Color is not your icon
Color is not your hero
Where is your diversity
I am sick
I am tired
I am brown
A color different from you
I am a color
I am not your color

This is a poem that generated from my frustration of being in a classroom filled with Caucasian people. A comment was made that the U.S. is diverse. I made the comment that the U.S. is by far not as diverse as it should be. MOST of the CEOs are white males. In a predominately white in which I reside, I was the only person who was not Caucasian at my job. In my classes at my University, there are maybe 2 or 3 people out of 30 that are not Caucasian. Another person commented back saying, well I live here as well and I have a Korean friend, and an Indian friend. I replied, “OH so you have two” How can one person know about diversity by just being exposed to one or two people. Where is diversity?  

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

My Heart, My Forever

my heart, my forever

once broken
filled with sorrow
filled with hurt
love entered
real love knocked
now mended
complete
overflowing
joy
happiness
filled with smiles
forever love
i have met my heart
i have met my forever

Monday, May 16, 2011

Home Across the World

Home Across the World

Here, there, I am a foreigner
Being surrounded by them
My people, my home, my heart
Love must be shown
What can be done
So many missing girls
Death is all around
My people, my home, my heart
Who decides life
Who is given life
What is life
My people, my home, my heart
I am a girl
I am a woman
Life was never taken
I am a missing girl
-Bina Walker

Friday, May 6, 2011

Benita Walker PhD-Women in India

Two weeks ago I presented on education attainment for the Women in India and what it mean to participate in the labor force. It was amazing! There were 91 people in the Women and Genders Studies Center, it had never been that packed before! My family and friends were there and it meant so much to me that they were a part of my presentation.I spoke for about 35 minutes and then there were about 20 minutes of questions. A lot of people were surprisingly interested in arrange marriages. Some wanted to know about how my traditional Indian parents reacted to my Husband and then asked about my sister's experience as well. It was nice because not only did I get to answer but so did my sister and father.

I love that I could see how happy my parents were as I was presenting. It was as though they really were proud and happy that the path that God had chosen and HIS will was occurring. I always pray before I have to speak anywhere so It was really nice to see how God works everything out!

Below is a picture that was ALL over campus, the dorms and anywhere you could possibly think of at EWU...

I Love how my passion in research is all about India! I am looking forward to what the future holds! It is also hilarious that the Women and Gender Studies center printed off flyers that labeled me as a PhD... it was quite amusing... I didn't know that I had a PhD haha...

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Love this!


My Laugh for the Day 

'She Believes'

Who Defines 'Free'
She Is Given Opportunity
She Is Given Life
She Is Truly Able
Will Motivation Continue
Is She Someone To Believe In
She Has A Light
She Has Plans
She Has Ideas
She Will Change The World
She Is Opportunity
She Defines Her 'Freedom'

-BRW

Walk around Town







It was such a wonderful beautiful weekend. My husband and I enjoyed a 2.5 hour walk around Cheney with our little baby Josiah. It was extremely windy and cold. Driving through Cheney, I never realized how many things I missed seeing. I never got the chance to enjoy gardens and certain structures of peoples houses. I had so much fun!

I almost felt like a crazy tourist taking a picture in front of the MASSIVE EWU sign... but I had to...sad to say it but I will miss Cheney when we're gone...Even though the city lacks diversity and 'Seattleness,' it's still nice and quiet.

My encouragement for the day is to go outside and take a walk! Enjoy the small and little things that you may miss everyday! Look at what you are looking at and learn to appreciate it!